I cannot detect any "telling off" or arrogance in Sean_Wilson's initial reply to you. He merely stated that this is not the Flash Player forum, and posted a link to that forum. Not everybody here has the authority to move topics around to other forums.
We all agree that these forums are not easy to navigate, so pointers to the correct forums are essential. While Shockwave Player and Flash Player may be somewhat similar, a Shockwave expert may not know much about Flash, and vice versa.